A Family Tradition of Loving Cats
- Abby Juli
- 3 hours ago
- 2 min read
Lately I’ve been thinking about how certain things seem to quietly pass through generations without anyone ever talking about it directly. Not just traditions or recipes or old photographs tucked into drawers somewhere, but softer things. The way people love. The things that comfort them. The way they care for animals.
My gram was a huge cat lady.
The real kind. The kind who treated cats like family because to her, they were. One of her cats was a tuxedo named Fifi, and somehow that little detail stayed with me all these years later. Funny how the smallest things become permanent pieces of us without us realizing it at the time.

Now when I look back, I wonder if she inspired more of my life than I ever noticed.
Especially creatively.
The watercolor softness behind CozyPaws & Tails suddenly makes more sense to me now. I used to think I was just naturally drawn to soft art styles and cozy animals, but maybe those roots started way earlier. Maybe growing up around someone who loved animals so deeply shaped the way I create today.
There’s something about watercolor art that feels emotional to me. The imperfect edges. The colors blending together softly. It reminds me of memory itself. Nothing harsh. Nothing overly polished. Just warmth.

And honestly, that’s what I hope CozyPaws becomes someday.
Not just a shop or cute pet products, but a comforting little space for people who love animals the way my gram did. The kind of people who still think about pets they lost years ago. The people who stop to pet neighborhood cats. The people who find comfort in paws, fur, and quiet companionship.
The more I think about it, the more I feel like cat ladies really are generational.
Not in the stereotype people joke about online, but in a gentler way. Almost like a family trait built on tenderness and nurturing. A love passed down quietly through stories, memories, and tiny paw prints across decades.
And maybe that’s why something else hit me recently too.
I started realizing my soul cat Bugs and her soul cat Fifi almost feel like twins born decades apart.

Same energy. Same comfort. Same feeling of being understood without words.
It’s strange how cats can become emotional landmarks in a family timeline. You remember parts of your life through them. The cat curled up nearby during difficult years. The one waiting at the window. The one whose personality becomes part of family stories forever.
And now Bandit Girl feels like she’s continuing the tradition.
Like somehow she inherited the role naturally.
Fifi in my gram’s generation. Bugs in mine. Now Bandit Girl carrying that same spirit forward in her own way.

Maybe that sounds silly to some people, but animal lovers understand this feeling immediately. Sometimes it really does feel like the same souls find us over and over again when we need them most.
Maybe that’s why CozyPaws feels so personal to me.
It was never really just about animals.
It’s about memory. Comfort. Grief. Love. Family. Creativity. Healing.
And maybe every watercolor cat I create now carries a tiny piece of Fifi, Bugs, and Bandit Girl with it too.