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The Season of Undoing: Learning to Slow Down in a World That Never Stops

  • Writer: Abby Juli
    Abby Juli
  • Apr 20
  • 2 min read

I came across something by Allison Lyons about the season of undoing… and it stuck with me.

Because she’s right.


Sometimes we don’t need to do more. We don’t need to fix everything.

We don’t need to constantly be improving or pushing forward.

Sometimes…

we just need to slow down.


The Pressure to Always Be “On”


Life lately feels like it’s always moving.


There’s always something to do. Something to finish. Something waiting for your attention.

And working in retail makes that feeling even louder.

It’s constant.


Customer after customer. Always something to clean, fix, restock, answer.


There’s barely a second to just pause.


It’s literally “go, go, go” your entire shift.

And by the time you stop?

You’re exhausted… but your mind is still running.

What “Undoing” Actually Feels Like


That’s why the idea of a season of undoing hit me so hard.


Because maybe this isn’t a season where I need to:

  • hustle harder

  • be more productive

  • or prove anything to anyone


Maybe this is a season where I need to:

  • unlearn the pressure

  • undo the constant rushing

  • let go of the idea that I always have to be doing something


And just… exist for a second.


Being Present Isn’t Easy (Especially in Chaos)


People say “be present” like it’s simple.

But it’s not.


Not when your environment is fast-paced. Not when your brain is used to multitasking.

Not when your whole day is structured around reacting to everything around you.


Being present, for me, looks like small moments:

  • taking a breath between customers

  • grounding myself when everything feels chaotic

  • reminding myself I don’t have to carry the entire day all at once


It’s not perfect.

But it’s something.


Slowing Down in a Fast World


Slowing down doesn’t always mean physically stopping.

Sometimes it just means:

  • softening your thoughts

  • giving yourself a mental break

  • letting one moment be enough


Even in the middle of a busy shift.

Even when life doesn’t actually slow down around you.


Final Thoughts


I’m starting to realize that maybe not every season of life is meant for building, growing, or

pushing.


Some seasons are meant for undoing.


Undoing the pressure.

Undoing the noise.

Undoing the version of yourself that feels like it has to keep up with everything.

And slowly… learning how to just be present again.

Even in the middle of the chaos.

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